15 years ago, I made a life-changing decision. I moved to Puerto Rico, a place that has become my sanctuary, and chose to get sober. At the time, I had no idea how this one decision would transform not just my relationship with alcohol but my entire approach to life, including how I connect with others. I’ve now been sober for 9 years, and I can tell you—sober dating is a whole different world. But let’s be honest—sober dating isn’t just about removing alcohol. It’s about removing all the layers of pretense and finding someone who truly connects with who I am. The Challenge of Dating in a World That…